Imagine with me for a moment that you are a young
adult. You have already left home and gone out into the world to discover who
you are. You’ve got a place you call home (a nice house on a hill), a job that
pays spectacularly and you love it dearly, and some close friends that support
your every decision. You have some time off from work so you decide to go visit
your hometown; you bring your close friends along with a promise to show them
around. Now imagine that you arrive in your hometown, only to be scoffed at by
the inhabitants. They remember when you were the kid from around the corner who
had very little money and a very big family. Now suddenly they accuse you of
thinking you’re better then them; “Who do you think you are?” they say. “Just
because you have money now, doesn’t make you better then us!” Sound familiar to
anyone? If not, substitute faith in God for money; count out 12 faithful
disciples, and a calling from God for the job. Now you have some idea of what
Jesus was dealing with in this morning’s Gospel.
We would like to think that the town in which we
were raised-if in our modern move-around-constantly society we were so lucky to
have just one-would be the town that would support us and welcome us home with
open arms. We want that town to be among the first to believe in us, and the
first to fight for us. They say it takes a village to raise a child, and in
small towns all across America I like to think that’s still a possibility.
It was certainly a reality in Jesus’ time. Women
lived to do all the menial labor for men-cook, clean clothes, bring in water,
raise the children, milk and feed the animals, harvest olives and fruits, and
various other tasks. Which meant that often times women gathered to do their
work together and brought their children with them. In a town like Nazareth, it
is right to guess that most of the women would have helped Mary raise Jesus and
His siblings. When you help raise a child, you come to know them in ways that
complete strangers do not. You see when they fall and scrap their knee, their
first argument with siblings-yes I think Jesus probably argued with His
siblings too, you come to understand and help shape what kind of person they
will be.
So on that day when Jesus brought the disciples to
Nazareth thinking to show them around His home town, maybe even hoping to be
able to relax a little and visit with His family, you can imagine how surprised
He was by how they treated Him. “What is this wisdom given to him?” “Is not this
the carpenter, the son of Mary, and brother of James and Joses and Judas and
Simon, and are not his sisters here with us?” You can almost hear them sneering
at Him, their utter disbelief in what He has to say. He is Mary’s son (not
Joseph’s you will note) ergo He is not worth their time. I can just hear the
shock coming from the disciples as they try to understand how the people in
this town can be so dismissive of their Rabbi. “Don’t you know who this man
is?” they might say. “This man has cast out demons, healed lepers, raised the
dead, fed 5,000 with 5 loaves and 2 fish, and walked on water; how dare you
speak to Him thus!”
I also imagine that Jesus would just sigh and calmly
but sadly tell them to let it go. He would do what healing He could, but He
wouldn’t try to force the issue. Its kind of like when you know someone really
well and you get into an argument with them, at some point during that argument
you realize that no matter what you say or how convincing you are you simply
aren’t going to change their mind. I think Jesus hoped that by acting instead
of speaking He would convince more of them to realize who and whose He was.
Actions speak louder then words; unless you are Jesus in your hometown of
Nazareth I guess.
It can be so difficult sometimes for the people
closest to you to see you for who you really are. When we spend so much time
getting to know someone, we slip into that comfortable space of thinking that
they will never change. Baring a big shocking change, it may take years for us
to realize that the person we knew no longer exists; or they do but not in way
we are used to. As much as we are a fast changing society and we push to be
adaptive, no one really likes big changes. There is a reason that so many
traditions have lasted for hundreds of thousands of years; human beings are
creatures of habit. I think that Jesus going to Nazareth with His disciples was
God’s way of experiencing that first hand. And I believe that this story is
important to Mark because he hopes that by reading it we will remember that we
don’t have control over the lives of those around us. Yes, some people will
change and it will not be for the better; but some people need to change in
order to grow into the person that God asks them to be.
It is incredibly important for us to remember that
our lives are in God’s hands. We can choose to put it there willingly, or we
can try to take the reins ourselves and watch it go not according to our plans.
Which do you choose?
Thanks, Kassia, for the gift of your sermon. Sounds like it comes from personal experience--the most authentic kind of preaching!
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